Jun
18
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Sex Warning: Mature. Well, don’t make your sex life become a routine activity. It’ll become boring. Trust me, I know. Most importantly, never miss foreplay! Why? A couple of reasons: Most women need prolonged stimulation to reach the point of complete arousal and also to become properly lubricated; for men, an erection. Of course, if you do the same thing over and over, it becomes routine and boring. Solution? How about some foreplay games to spice some things up? Here are a few examples.

Betting games - Classic. Whether it’s a game of strip poker or strip pool the same thing is common, both of you will slowly get undressed, prolonging the excitement. Of course, if you are winning a lot, try to lose once in a while. On the other hand, if you keep losing a lot, try harder. Fun is what we’re aiming for during foreplay and there’s no fun in having someone win all the time.

Foreplay Fun Dice - How about rolling some dice during foreplay? One die has the words “Kiss” and “Carress” among other stuff, while the second has the area where you are supposed to do the thing from the first die. Simple, but it keeps things from being too repetitive. Unless you roll the same thing over and over again… Costs 10 bucks.

Roleplaying - Ever imagined one of you being Tarzan and the other is Jayne? Well, you should have a lot of imagination for this one and, of course, a bit of acting skills. Try to get into the role and act out. Once everything starts getting naughty, you’ll find it a lot different from your possible routine and it opens up a lot of possibilities. Best of all, there’s no cost (unless you opt for the costume, which could make the whole thing better). It’s a free foreplay game, yeah?
Apr
08
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Sex
Learn and share the methods of spicing up your sexual activities. True enough heat creates fire, and if there is fire, intimacy and passion flares up causing a hot, steamy lovemaking.
Never underestimate the power of a kiss; it’s where it all started anyway. Some couples just forgot how the intimacy works; kissing is one way of getting more intimate and passionate. Start with a soft, light kiss on the upper lip, then feel the tension heats up and there will be groping and kissing all over the place. Don’t talk while you’re kissing. Kiss the lips, going to the ears and down to the neck - and who knows where else to go down to.
Show some sneak peak of your body by undressing some parts of your body then let your partner do it for you. Remember to take it slow. Undressing fast takes away all the excitement.
Let’s face it, talking dirty turns us ON. Most of the guys gets turned on by what they see and most women by what they hear and feel. Still dirty talks spices up the process of lovemaking.
- Massage your way to the Big-O
Start with a simple massage on the hand or the back. Let your imagination flow, try massaging your partner using your tongue or any part of your body. Rub your body against your partner and see what happens!
It takes two people to do this, even if you are totally aroused but your partner isn’t then all these foreplay isn’t going anywhere. Women usually don’t like to be just groped and start doing the thing. What woman wants is too cuddle and kiss and eventually leads to steamy SEX.
- Always think it’s the First time
This for sure will always give you an experience you never had. Thinking you’ll be doing it for the first time always excites you enough to give you an orgasm.
- Places you’ve never tried
Try new locations you haven’t had sex before. Like around the house - kitchen, garage, or even in your front lawn. Fill up your fantasies; some may want to try doing it in an elevator, in a car, public place or on the sandy beach. I once tried jumping naked on the beach of Bahamas
, and my partner taught it was really sexy and jumped in with me. We had a really HOT sex.
Don’t be afraid to try something new. Experiment with your partner, if you feel like trying out different positions or different styles, GO AHEAD! Make use of food, scents or toys that can make you go oooohhh and aahhh.
Don’t jump in to a quick sex after a little kiss. Take your time, breath deeply, say positive stuffs to each other, and remember to satisfy your partner and not just satisfying yourself.
Like what I said earlier, visual stimulation do help a lot mostly in men. There’s nothing wrong with watching some erotic movies once in a while. Try the things you see and watch. It will help a lot!